Good Friday Negotiations for Couples

When couples begin to separate and a relationship begins to breakdown a form of emotional psychosis can often begin to take over. Continue reading

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Issues of Power and Control

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WHAT IS AT STAKE IN RELATIONSHIPS?

There are actually only two issues in a relationship that cause problems.   They are Power and Intimacy. Everything else is derivative of these two issues. Putting it another way, couples have only two real fights: One about how power and control is distributed. The other about how much closeness and intimacy is negotiated. How issues of power and intimacy are resolved define a relationship. Continue reading